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Kimberly C. (Warren) Moitoza

September 6, 1965 ~ September 10, 2012 (age 47) 47 Years Old
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Message from Raymond Moitoza
December 20, 2022 10:25 PM
Wow. Just thinking about you Kim. It's been ten years since you're gone. Thought I was done writing here. My life is good and thanks to Tyra Marie it's very good. Like I just wrote, Just thinking about you and wish you could somehow let me know that God is real and Heaven is real. I'm not doubting, just would like to know for sure. K-N-R 04-05-08...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 10, 2017 3:50 PM
Today is five years since you went home to be with the Lord. You've been missed everyday since... K-N-R 04-05-08...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 11, 2015 2:02 AM
Well, first off all I'd like to thank you Matthew O'Neil for posting all of my writings I've left for and about Kim for the past three years. Yesterday was three years since Kim has gone home to be with the Lord. I've written many times that I know God has helped me through the loss of Kim. I've also written that I know God will someday give me back Joy in my heart and bless me with another woman when He feels that I'm ready. I've trusted him throughout and He has. God has Blessed me with a good Christian girl and her name is Tyra. I've also written and asked God to let me know when the time was right to "put down the keypad" so to speak and end these monthly messages and the time is now. Will I ever write here again? I'm trusting God with this decision. So, if indeed this is my final writing here, then Thank you Mathew and more than anything Thank You God!!!
For the last time, K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond. My life is in Your Hands Lord...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 7, 2015 12:50 PM
Happy 3rd Birthday in heaven Kim. I believe this is the month My Kim to stop writing. In a few days, it will be three years since you went home to Heaven. I believe God is blessing me and has heard my prayers. I believe the time is here to put and keep my thoughts of you in my heart now. As far as I know, one more writing on these pages will be happening soon and I'll be closing this chapter of my life to start the next. I've asked God many times throughout my writings for the right time to close this chapter. Will I ever write hear again after my next writing? Maybe I'll just check in on ya' from time to time. I truly miss you and you'll always have a special place in my heart. Goodnight for now...K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
August 10, 2015 4:15 PM
Each month I write another message and each month I wonder when and if I'll stop or should stop. I ask God when and if I should and so far I haven't felt an answer has been given. I've attempted to write a book of you and I and I figure all of the writings I put here will also in some way be part of that. I always wonder what someone would think about me if they read my writings. "That guy is nuts. That guy is lost. That guy has an amazing heart". I'd like to think my heart would take precedence. To say that my Kim has touched my heart, well...
K-N-R-04-05-08... Raymond
Message from Raymond Moitoza
July 10, 2015 2:18 AM
Hello again my Kim. I'm hoping to have dreams of you more often. Some seem so real. I wish you'd tell me in a dream what heaven is like... What your journey to heaven was like... Are there people I knew there?... If I died today, would I be there?. Three years with you gone is fast approaching. When I write on these pages I sometimes look around and imagine that you're lying on the couch and I have to go give you a kiss and tell you it's time to go to bed now. As I sigh right now, reality sets in and I realize I'm going to bed alone again tonight. Our bed is always made as if you were here. Your pillow has the night shirt you wore draped on it. Hearing the train go by in the distance as it blows its horn brings back the special "choo choo" memories I'll always have of you when I was waiting for you to return home, only know you're not coming home. Now when I hear the train horn, you come home to my heart. Do I miss you my Kim? All the time...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
June 10, 2015 9:30 AM
Looking around our apartment, I see so many things to remind me of you. Of us. Your bureau and nightstand still has everything in its place where you left it. Everything get's picked up to be dusted then placed back like in the movie "Message in a Bottle" with Kevin Costner when his wife died. Even the pillow on your side of our bed has the night shirt that you wore draped on your pillow still to this day. So many things that you did to make this place a home are still in the same spot where you had put them. What can I say? I have thousands of pages of writings that I wrote to you while you were here with me and since you've been gone, I continue writing here each month. Like I used to say to you my Kim when we sat on the couch watching a Lifetime or Hallmark movie, "Our story is a Love Story Waiting to be Written". Well, it has been written and continues to be with the writings I write here. You are missed my Kim and you are loved...
04-08-05-K-N-R...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
May 10, 2015 8:44 PM
Where does the time go? 32 months since you've been gone. WOW! Today is also Mothers Day 2015. I've got plenty of things that keep me busy even though I don't do much. I definitely have enough time to have you on my mind constantly. I'm still waiting on God to put someone new in my life. No hurry. I'm damaged goods anyway. I wish you could tell me what it's like where you are. Like the song I sang to you when you left, "I Can Only Imagine". That's all I can do. I miss you Kimberly. It would have been nice to know when there was going to be the one last kiss, the one last hug, the one last I Love You. You are missed by me and many others. God is a good God. I know He's in control and when I think I can't handle a situation, like you being gone, I remind myself that He is in control. I continue to trust Him with my life and my well being. O.K. my Kim. You're with me now and forever in my heart and spirit. I miss you...
K-N-R-04-05-08..Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
April 11, 2015 10:34 PM
Well my Kim. Looks like the Spring is finally going to be here this weekend. What a long winter it has been. It's time to to beautify your grave site again. Flowers soon my love. Bird feeders and of course soon to follow, our Humming Bird feeder. Many of sad days my Kim but knowing you're safe and sound in Gods hands comforts me. You must love where you're at baby. I can only imagine how beautiful Heaven is. I miss you big time my Kim...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
March 10, 2015 12:42 PM
Don't know why the February post is not here. Probably hit the wrong e-mail. I have no idea how to retrieve it. Another month goes by. Time goes on. You are missed.
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
January 10, 2015 2:04 PM
My Kim,
Missing you is an everyday moment of my life now. It'll never stop. How could it? These writings may stop some day, then again, maybe they won't. I do know the thoughts won't ever leave. Even when times are busy during a day, there will always be a moment with a thought of you my Kim. Could be brief or with much concentration. It doesn't matter. Each one is special because of you. You are missed and loved by many...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
December 10, 2014 11:39 AM
My Kim,
My Kim...
  Truly Missed...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
November 12, 2014 12:56 PM
My Kim,
I'm slowly getting there my Kim. Thought about stopping writing here again. Not yet. I will when I will. You're o.k. I'm the one that must bear these tears. I just need some joy back. God knows my wants but, more importantly, knows my needs. I trust Him always with my life. You are truly missed my Kim...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
October 10, 2014 9:19 AM
My Kim,
I write here every month and until the joy that you've given my heart returns, I'm going to continue to. I thought that I should stop once two years came since you've been gone but I'm just not ready. I'm going to wait for the joy. Something I just can't explain. My heart will know. You are missed and loved...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 11, 2014 2:23 PM
My Kimberly,
It seems like just yesterday I was holding your hand. It seems like just tonight we were sitting on the couch watching a Hallmark or Lifetime movie. It seems like we were just hugging and saying that we love each other. It feels like I'm going to turn around right now and see you there. Then reality sets in...
Today, September 10, 2014, marks two years since you went home to be with the Lord. I will always cherish the time that we had together as "Mr. and Mrs. Moitoza" and as "Us as One"...
My Kimberly...Truly missed...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
August 10, 2014 12:48 AM
My Kim. I write a condolence every month and more. Not because I have to but, because I want to. It's almost two years since you've gone home to be with the Lord. Sometimes I ask "Why God? Why"? Maybe I'll know someday, maybe I won't and that's fine. I won't stop trusting God. I look around and you're everywhere. I miss you every day my Kim. Thank you for another dream of us last night...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
July 11, 2014 12:53 AM
One more month and counting My Kimberly. Where does the time go? God continues to carry me through any moments of grief and sorrow. I love Him for that. You're still here in so many ways although now it's all spiritual. That's Gods comfort and healing that He gives me. Truly missed...
K-N-R-04-05-08... Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
June 10, 2014 1:37 AM
My Kim,
Being alone and missing you hurts so much. As I cry while writing this, I know there'll come a day that God will place someone else in my life. I'm in no hurry but, I'm sure that day will come. Whoever she may be, she'll need to understand that I'll never forget you. I trust God with whatever His plans are for my life. I'll miss you always my Kim. Our life together ended too soon but, my memories of us will never end. I thank God always for you and I being Us as One, K-N-R, Mr. and Mrs. Moitoza, and anything else I wrote that had us together. Until next time my Kim... K-N-R-04-05-08...
Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
May 10, 2014 3:34 PM
My Kim. When is it going to get easier? I predict never. Things can be going smoothly and life can be busy and all it takes is one thought of you my Kim and every memory comes alive again. Those of us who are alive are the ones with the pain and the hurt that comes from missing someone we love. I miss you my Kim. God helps me through all of the pain and sorrow and I love Him for that but, it still hurts. It's twenty months today since you went home to be with the Lord. I wish that I could hold you as tight as He is right now. I miss you my Kim...
K-N-R...04-05-08...Raymond...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
April 10, 2014 5:14 PM
Another day. Another month. You're with me in my thoughts always. Our 6th year anniversary recently passed. Everyday I miss everything about you. About us. I don't like being just a "me". I miss "us". Us as one. We. K-N-R as I wrote often. Well, I'm wiping my tears again "My Kim". Another day. Another month. You're in my thoughts always...
K-N-R. 04-05-08
Message from Raymond Moitoza
March 10, 2014 8:52 PM
Another month. Another condolence. Another alone time for me. I talk with God everyday and I don't feel so alone. He's carried me through my sorrows since day one that He took you home and continues to do so. I'm comforted knowing that you're safe in His presence. No matter how sad I am, and I'm very sad, I feel good knowing you're with God. I miss you my love.
K-N-R-04-05-08...Us as One...
   Raymond
Message from Raymond Moitoza
February 10, 2014 7:31 PM
Do I need to write in the condolences every month? No. I just like doing it. Although I have a lot of alone time with thoughts of my Kim, writing here is very intimate to me. Will a time come when I won't write here? Sadly, that's possible. I've written so many letters to my Kim. Literally, thousands of pages. Every sentence, every paragraph, every single letter and every punctuation are from my heart. Alive by my side and now by my side in spirit. My Kim. My Kimmy. Do I miss her? Everyday...
K-N-R 04-05-08...
   Raymond
Message from Raymond Moitoza
January 11, 2014 7:28 PM
My Kim.
  Wow. I write, and I write, and I write as I did for years to you. "Letters to Kim" is the name of the book I feel God told me to call my writings after praying about it. I have a series of books about you if that's the case. Thousands of pages. These condolences I write each month will also be included. I miss you. I miss you so much. Tears come at anyplace and at anytime. Our story is a romantic one. Someone just has to read one letter and they'll know how much love we had. I thank God for you always. If I could have one wish, it would be to look into your eyes and tell you that I love you. I miss you my Kim...
K-N-R 04-05-08... Us as One...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
December 10, 2013 6:58 PM
My Kim. I've written a condolence every month to her, to you, since the passing. Each one from my heart. I hope to continue. Every day there are thoughts and tears. All of these writings will be put in the book that I'm writing for others to read. I was and am definitely in love with you my Kim. Our story is a true love story still being written. I continue to miss you and can't imagine ever not. Another month goes by that you are missed by me and many others. Believing that God is real and that you're with Him makes me feel alright. Until next time my Kim... K-N-R 04-05-08
Raymond
Message from Raymond Moitoza
November 13, 2013 5:49 PM
My Kim, like I've said many times to you, our story is a Hallmark or Lifetime movie waiting to be written. With the thousands of pages I've written since being together and since you've been gone including these obituary's, well my dear, I've begun. First and foremost I thank God for you. He will guide me through this next chapter of my life. All glory to Him. I miss you everyday. I cry everyday. I'm going to continue to trust God with my life and trust that He has a hold of you and that we will see each other again my love. I miss you baby.
K-N-R 04-05-08 Us as One
Message from Raymond Moitoza
October 10, 2013 11:31 PM
My Kim. My sweet Kim. Although my life must go on without you physically, you're in my heart always. Everywhere I look, you're there. You're here. So many things of yours here are still in the exact same place as if you never left. There's not a day without thoughts of you. Thoughts of us. So many tears. I can't imagine ever not missing you. I love my Kim...
K-N-R-04-05-08...Us as one...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 10, 2013 11:58 PM
Well my love, I made it through this first year. All glory to God. Can't express enough how much you're missed. I will miss you for ever. There's not a day that goes by without thoughts of you my Kim. Miss you baby...
Raymond 9/10/2013 KNR 04-05-08
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 6, 2013 7:15 PM
Happy First Birthday in Heaven my Love...
   Raymond
Message from Raymond Moitoza
August 10, 2013 1:01 AM
Wow my love. Today is eleven months since the Lord took you to be with Him. Everyday I miss you. Everyday I cry. Everyday I smile when I think of you. Of us. Then I cry some more as I am right now. I'm trusting and believing God for continued strength and understanding. I love you Kim...OUCH...This hurts...I miss you so much baby...
KNR 04-05-08... US AS ONE...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
July 10, 2013 12:38 AM
My true love. My Kim. My wife. Today is ten months since you've been gone. There's not a day since that my eyes have not had tears. My heart aches daily. I'm still not sure why God has given me this test of faith but, I have to and will continue to trust Him. I love you Kim and I miss you dearly. I had the "best girl in the world" my love. I loved when we would say to each other that we wanted to grow old together. No matter where my life leads, I'll always wonder what would have been. Ray-n-Kim. Kim-n-Ray. K-N-R-04-05-08
I'll miss you for the rest of my life. Goodnight my love...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
June 10, 2013 12:46 AM
Where does the time go my love. Today makes nine months since you went to be with the Lord. Knowing that you're with Him is the only thing that helps me cope with losing you. My heart aches yet I know God is healing it. Crying is an everyday moment in my life without you. I miss you my love and always will...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
May 10, 2013 12:00 PM
Wow...Eight months today since you've been gone my Kim. It's very hard missing you my love. Some days harder than others. Wow...The tears have been many and many more to follow. What do I miss the most? Everything... Although I may not see you, I feel you. My heart and my thoughts are filled with you always my KIm...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
April 5, 2013 12:35 AM
My Kim, My wife, My best fiend. Today is our anniversary. April 5, 2013. I miss you more than anything or anyone from my whole life. It's so hard sometime to realize that you are gone from this world. I love being a Christian and loving God my love. Without that, I would have no hope of ever seeing you again. I trust that you are in Gods hands and that you are safe. And although my heart hurts so much, He gives me the strength that I need to carry on every day without you. I'll miss you until the day that I die, when we meet again. Until that day my Kim, may God let you know how much that I love you...K-N-R 04-05-08
Message from Raymond Moitoza
March 4, 2013 8:07 PM
My Kim. My Kimberly. My Kimmy. I was going to wait for the sixth month to write here again my love. Although you're safe in God's hands, in some ways I feel I protected you again today. Even though in the world we are apart, spiritually we are together. I will continue to protect you my love. I pray to you, talk to you, and think about you everyday. I cry, I laugh, and I miss you. I also know that these words I write are to console me. It feels good to believe that you hear them. As I wrote, it's to console me. So my love, I feel I protected you again. God knows what I mean and a good friend does too. Thank you Lord for talking to me again today. I love you my Kim...04-05-08...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
December 25, 2012 10:32 PM
My Kim. My Kimberly. My Kimmy.
Today is Christmas 2012. It snowed at midnight last night and I slow danced with you in my mind and heart, like we always did together, when it snowed. I am going on with my life, alone, one day at a time. On the outside, I am strong. On the inside, I am so very weak. You brought joy back into my life and now it's gone again. We were so good together. Now I am a man lost without you, trying to find his way. I cry everyday. No one sees that side of me. It hurts so much baby. I miss you everyday, every night. Your always in my heart and always on my mind. I loved you so much Kim.
I pray for strength everyday and so far, God has given it to me. I hope to someday understand why... I miss you and love you Mrs. Moitoza. My Kim. My Kimberly. My Kimmy...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
December 1, 2012 9:31 PM
My Kim. My Kimmy. My wife. My lover. My friend... I've made it through Thanksgiving. Just like when you were here with me, I think of you all of the time. I'm doing my best. The best that I can. My heart aches. Floods of tears flow from my eyes at any given time. When I think that I can't get through another day, another day has come and gone...then another, then another, and yet another. I live for today but with so much of yesterday in my heart.
You were amazing. I thank God that you and I were Mr. and Mrs. Moitoza. Kim and Ray...or, K-N-R as I wrote thousands of times in the letters I've written to you. Us as One. We.
As I move on with my life, as I must, it's just me. That's on the outside, but on the inside, it will always be Mr. and Mrs. Moitoza. Kim and Ray. K-N-R. Us as One. We. I love you so very much and always will. I'll never forget you Mrs. Moitoza...
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 20, 2012 10:06 PM
Kim...My Kimberly...My Kimmy... What a week it's been. I want you to know that the service for you was very,very beautiful. I sang the song I used to sing for you and with you, "Lord You Have My Heart". Every time I sing that song again I'll always think of you my love. Ever since you left, I've heard the word "Imagine" said in so many ways but, mostly "I can only Imagine". Ray, I can only imagine what you're going through. Ray, I can't imagine this or I can't imagine that. Well my love, I know in my heart that you are walking with Jesus now just as the songs lyrics say. You no longer have to "Imagine, what it would be like". I also sang the song "I can only Imagine" for you Kim. I'll be singing at our church again my love and every note that leaves my lips will be a kiss for you. I love you Kim. My Kimberly. My Kimmy. You'll always be in my heart... ALWAYS...
       Your husband and friend... Raymond
          P.S. KNR 04-05-08 Us as ONE
Message from Stephanie
September 19, 2012 3:00 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.  I have thought about her everyday since I found her on the steps.  I found out the sad news this morning from another resident there.  Having lost my mother 3 years ago, also very suddenly - I realize who precious moments are with loved ones.  I am sorry that there was not more I could do for her.  Wishing all whose lives she touched comfort in there memories of her.
Message from Dawn Oden Mackiewicz
September 18, 2012 11:27 PM
Ray

I am deeply sorry for your loss.  My sympathy to you and your family.  I am sure this is a very difficult time for you but her spirit will keep you going through the rest of your life.  My prayers are with you
Message from Sandra Cordeiro
September 18, 2012 4:48 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Kim's family but mostly her beloved Jeremy. Jeremy your mom spoke about you everytime I saw her with such love in her eyes. Even though you are a man she would still call you her Jer. I can't pretend to know what you are going thru because I don't know what you are go thru but my heart goes out to you, just remember she will always be watching over you and protecting you. Your mom was one of the nicest people I have ever met in my life, she had a very big kind heart. God Bless you always.

Hugs,
Sandy C and family (Emma's Sister)
Message from Mary Espinoza
September 18, 2012 3:29 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with all of you now. I am so sorry for your loss. Kim was a kind and gentle person that had so to much to give. It is a sad loss for everyone that had the pleasure to know her. She will be greatly missed!
Message from Jim Mercier
September 18, 2012 12:37 PM
Raymond,,you have my most sincere sympathy for your loss. Kim was a friend to everyone she knew,she was kind to everybody.  

Kim,,walk in Peace and Glory and Peace be with all who knew her.
Message from Dianne M Brown
September 18, 2012 1:08 AM
Ray,
I am so sorry to have heard of the passing of your loving wife Kim.  I know that you miss her a lot but in time the pain will ease but never forgotten.  You have your memories hold on to them.  I think what a wonderful thing Kim did to be a donor and now there are people living because of her love. She is still doing the Lord's work. Kim was a very generous person she had a great smile.  Ray I know she love you very much as you loved her.  It is now a celebration of Kim life,she is now home in the arms of her loving Father.  God Bless you Ray you are in my prayers.
Message from Laurie Ashcroft
September 16, 2012 10:51 PM
Ray,  My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.  I will always remember Kim's big smiles sitting on the stairs when I went in and out of the building, always showing what a thoughtful, caring individual she was!  She was a child of God, living life one day at a time.  I will cherish the items that she offered to me when I got my new apartment, and I pray that God will guide you, Ray, one small step at a time.  I know that Tom will miss chatting with her, as will all of her 'friends' there.  Rest In Peace, Kim, you were truly loved.  God bless you and keep you as healthy as you can be, Ray!  Sincerely, Laurie with the Hyundai alarm  :)
Message from Raymond Moitoza
September 15, 2012 10:15 AM
Kim. My Kimberly. Thank you for loving me and thank you for loving God. You were there for me in so many ways and now you are here for me in other ways. Through our faith, you are doing like the song we both love "I Can Only Imagine" says. I'm still going to continue singing to you my love. My wife. You truly were and are a Gift from God. I'll miss you and I love with all my heart. Until we meet again my love.
Message from CHARLENE A
September 15, 2012 5:53 AM
KIM    SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS  IN TIME IT WILL BECOME EASIER TO DEAL WITH THE  GREAT LOSS OF YOUR SISTER, SHE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN. MEMORIES WILL KEEP HER ALIVE AND HELP YOU TO MOVE ON WHICH IS WHAT SHE WOULD WANT YOU TO DO I RECENTLY LOST MY ONE AND ONLY  SISTER AND I KNOW JUST HOW YOUR FEELING SO HANG IN THERE  TIME WILL HEAL

SINCERELY
CHARLENE ARRUDA
Message from Pam Aguiar
September 14, 2012 8:50 PM
To my dearest sister i will truely miss you. A piece of me died with you. I will always keep my promise we had.
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